BLAMING OTHERS

Blame would be THE scourge of our society. Used by everyone, blame is used without anyone really understanding what they are doing. Our minds have been grossly clouded by the destructive delusions from within society, that if we were to be analysed, we would certainly all be classified as insane!

Blame says I am not responsible for what happens. However, whatever happens to us in this life, is of our own doing, whether good, bad or indifferent, and to blame others is just plain irresponsible. If you can't see it in yourself right now, then have a look at others and see it in glaring detail. Listen to Polticians, is a prefect example.

We always tend to blame others when things are not going well. A classic example is when someone exclaims, "Stop it! You're making me angry". This says two things. One, it says I am blaming you for how I feel, and two it says I am not in control of my emotions and I am allowing your actions to make myself uncomfortable. These emotions are so strong that we fail to realize exactly what we are saying. These emotions have been reinforced time and time, again, since birth, that they are deeply engraved in our psyche. If you are truly in-charge of your life, then allowing someone's actions to affect your emotions is not even a consideration.

Blame drags us, and those associated to it, down to the very depths of depression and health inevitably suffers. Blame has such a negative influence, that once we realize what it damage it inflicts, we immediately stop doing it. Everyone knows the negative impact of cigarette smoking, and avoid doing it. But blame is 100 times more damaging to our health, yet we still do it! This is crazy. But there are methods to stop us doing this.

Once we understand that whatever we do in this life has been created by our own hands, then we immediately stop playing this destructive and insidious Blame Game.